Bruce Whelan '64

Bruce Whelan, 79, of Coronado, CA, passed away peacefully at home on January 14, 2025. Born on October 29, 1945, in Colorado, Bruce was the son of Ted and Norma Jean Whelan. His childhood was spent following his father’s career as an Air Force pilot around the globe. He was filled with a deep love for the outdoors—hiking, skiing, and fishing wherever life took him. As much as he cherished these activities, he always knew his true calling was in the skies. 

Bruce began his professional life working in fishery and wildlife management after graduating from Colorado State University, but his passion for aviation soon led him to a new career. He joined the United States Air Force, where he served for 22 years, including a tour of duty in Vietnam. Following his military career, Bruce pursued his love of flying in the civilian world as a commercial pilot. Even after retiring (twice!), he brought the same dedication and pride to every aspect of his life, always embracing new adventures. 

Bruce cherished his family above all else. He was the proud father of six children: Scott, Tyler, Jonathan, Bryce, Tom, and Megan, and the grandfather of 10 grandchildren. He met Marilyn Abbett during college, married, and had four boys. He later met Susan Somerville Whelan, and they married in 1989, blending two additional children into his family. He was a loving, supportive husband, patient father and grandfather. Bruce always had a word of encouragement, a helping hand, or a heartfelt laugh. He always strived to do the right thing and was humble enough to recognize when he had fallen short, never hesitating to apologize and make amends. 

Living in Coronado, Bruce became beloved in his “little neighborhood,” where his kindness, generosity, and sense of humor created a strong sense of community. His frequent walks with Phoebe, his loyal canine companion, were often prolonged by the many conversations he struck up with the neighbors. He had an exceptional gift for bringing people together, and his caring nature touched the lives of all who knew him. Bruce’s involvement in his parish, The Immaculata, allowed him to build lasting friendships through his Catholic faith. He was a constant source of support for those around him. 

In addition to his commitment to his family and community, Bruce was deeply passionate about the outdoors. He passed that love down to his children and grandchildren. Bruce, ever patient, untangled fishing line without complaint and encouraged them through a daunting hike out of the Grand Canyon. He demonstrated that life’s path was as important as its destination. His infectious smile, often followed by his signature “Oh, Bruce!” whenever things didn’t go quite as planned, will be forever missed.

Bruce also had a lighthearted philosophy about life. He could be found on the sidelines of his children’s sporting events, reminding them, “It’s not about winning; it’s about having fun!” and flashing his goofy two-thumbs-up gesture. He was never shy about expressing his love, always offering a hug and saying, “I love you,” ensuring that everyone knew just how much they meant to him. 

Bruce is survived by his devoted wife of 35 years, Susan; his children, Scott (Meredith), Tyler (Amy), Jonathan (Kellie), Bryce (Jan), Tom, and Megan (Erik); his 10 grandchildren; his sister, Teri (David); his brother, Mark; and many dear friends and extended family members. He was preceded in death by his parents, Ted and Norma Jean Whelan. 

A memorial service to celebrate Bruce’s life will be held on March 29, 2025 (11:00 a.m.) at The Immaculata in San Diego. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to your charity of choice in his memory.