Jeanette "Penny" Grainger '61
Jeanette Pinnell Grainger (Penny) Adams died Saturday, June 3, 2017 of
metastasized breast cancer. She had recently moved from Roanoke to Woodstock,
Ga.
Penny was the daughter of the late Inslee and Eleanor Grainger, former
residents of Lexington and Brandon Oaks. Born in Bethesda Naval Hospital April
29, 1944, she traveled the world with her Navy officer father and her Army
officer husband, Tom. Her high school years were mostly in France and Germany,
and she earned her bachelor's degree in music at James Madison University and a
master's in reading at Towson University, Maryland.
She was an accomplished pianist who studied at the Peabody Conservatory in
Baltimore; classical music was her passion. She taught music in several Virginia
schools and maintained a private piano studio wherever she lived. She also was a
grade school teacher and a reading teacher for Roanoke City Public Schools,
primarily in underperforming elementary schools, and was adjunct faculty in the
Maryland community college system.
Penny was a devoted homemaker with outstanding culinary talents. While Tom
was in Vietnam she developed a repertoire of gourmet recipes of her beloved
Julia Child, and she became known as a gracious hostess who created elegant
dinner parties. Her superb cooking was a delightful blend of Americana with an
international flare, as she had lived in the North, South, Midwest and Southwest
U.S., as well as Morocco, the Philippines, Hawaii, Bavarian Germany, Rhineland
Germany, the French part of Belgium, and the South of France. She loved
entertaining in style, with fine china and crystal and lots of good food and
wine. In the early days she enjoyed wearing cocktail dresses and gowns to Army
dress blue events, but she often went AWOL from formal ladies' teas that
required hat and white gloves.
Penny is survived by her husband of 50 years, Tom Adams, Woodstock, Ga.; son
Mike Adams, Roanoke, Va.; daughter Meredith ("Mimi") Hager and her
husband Mark Hager, Woodstock, Ga. Also surviving are sisters Eleanor Workman,
Richmond, Va., and Alice Grainger Gasser, Geneva, Switzerland. Penny wanted to
be remembered as a loving and loyal wife, mother, teacher, friend who had a
wonderful life filled with love, happiness, and adventure.
As Penny requested, there will be only a private inurnment ceremony at
Stonewall Jackson Memorial Cemetery in Lexington, Va., after the autumn leaves
have begun to change color. Memorial donations to the charity of your choice or
National Breast Cancer Coalition, 1010 Vermont Ave NW, Suite 900, Washington,
D.C. 20005.
From the Roanoke TImes dated June 21, 2017