On February 21, 2005, Mary
Louise Spencer passed away in Seattle, Washington. She was born April 8, 1947,
in West Palm Beach, Florida, to
John and Marjorie Butterfield.
Mary proudly graduated
from the University of Texas in 1981,
as a non-traditional student, raising two children and
a husband. Mary went on to teach English at Round Rock
High School through the mid ‘90s. She and her husband
of 39 years, Mack Spencer, then moved from Georgetown,
Texas, to Issaquah, Washington, to be closer to
family and to make it possible for her to provide fulltime care
for Mack, who suffers from Alzheimer's.
Thoughts of Mary will
remind us of her kindness, generosity,
wit, humor, strength of character, and her unyielding
loyalty and commitment towards family and friends.
She also had the rare ability to make everyone around
her feel extremely welcome and completely comfortable regardless of the
situation.
An except, from a Maya
Angelou poem, captures the legacy
of unconditional love and pride that Mary passes on
to her family. It reads:
And when great souls die,
after a period peace blooms, slowly
and always
irregularly. Spaces fill with a
kind of soothing electric
vibration. Our senses, restored,
never
to be the same, whisper to us. They
existed. They existed. We can be.
Be and be better. For they existed.
She would often say, “Don't
worry about it, everything will
work out in the end.”
Mary is survived and will
be dearly missed and alwaysloved by her husband, Mack; her daughter, Julie; son,
John; daughter-in-law, Leslie; grandson,
Mason; and three of her sisters,
Marge Brault, Joan Matlock and Theresa
Matches.
A memorial service
celebrating Mary's life was held on February
27, at Beck's Funeral Home, Edmonds, WA. In
lieu of flowers, please feel free to make donations to the
following organizations that helped our family and my
mother more than words can express. Please put “In Memory of Mary Spencer”:
Positive Women's Network, 3701
Broadway, Everett, WA 98201 and / or Multifaith Works,
1801 12th Ave., Suite A, Seattle, WA 98122.